SingleWestIndian.com offers a fun and secure website to meet other single adults. Whether you decide to correspond online or meet members offline, please use sound judgment In both the virtual and real world. An always use common sense as your safety tool. Single West Indian does not guarantee the person you meet will be safe. Single West Indian. Single West Indian does not perform any type (criminal, financial or any other type) of background checks on its members.
1. Start slow
Begin by communicating solely via SingleWestIndian.cominstant messenger or email, then look for odd behavior or inconsistencies. The member at the other end may not be who or what they say they are. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.
2. Guard your anonymity
All correspondence between SingleWestIndian.commembers takes place through within our site, ensuring your true identity. We do not provide any private information such as your name, offline email address, home address or phone numbers to other members. We will never ask you for your personal information on the Single West Indian..com site. If you receive such a request please forward the request to abuse@Single West Indian.com. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information or attempts to trick you into revealing it.
3. Exercise caution and common sense
Guard against trusting the untrustworthy members. Take time to test for a trustworthy person. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. Don’t become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. If you mutually decide begin a physical relationship be smart and protect yourself. The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention www.cdc.gov provide some of the most current information available about sexually transmitted diseases and preserving your health.
4. Request a photo
An additional photo will give you a good idea of the person\'s appearance. Our VIP “Verified Image Photo” systems and our tag line ad “a singles lounge where everyone is real!” is not a guarantee that the person is who they say they are. If all you hear are excuses about why you can\'t see a photo or you question the authenticity of the photo or profile, consider that he or she has something to hide.
5. phone, email and profiles.
A phone call can reveal much about a person. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger. Remember that most phone now feature Caller ID and when you call there is a good change the person will receive your phone number. Use blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in Caller ID. Only furnish your phone number when you feel completely comfortable. Remember, you are not obligated to return any members email. If you are not interested or uncomfortable SingleWestIndian.comprovides a block feature. With the block feature you can block any member from seeing your profile and contacting you within the Single West Indian website.
6. Meet when you are ready
The advantage of meeting online is that you can collect information gradually. You are never obligated to meet any member, regardless of your level of online intimacy. If you decide to meet, you always have the right to change your mind. Trust yourself. Go with your instincts.
7. Watch for red flags
Watch for displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts to pressure or control you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any physically inappropriate behavior are all red flags. You should be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following behavior.
o Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment, etc.
o Refuses to speak to you on the phone after establishing.
o Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions.
o Appears significantly different in person from his or her online persona.
o Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members.
8. Meet in a safe place
If you choose to meet offline, always tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date’s real name, user name and telephone number with your friend. Never let your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time with many people around, and when the date is over, leave on your own as well. If you decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for getting together and say goodbye.
9. Take extra caution outside your area
If you are flying in from another city, arrange for your own car and hotel room. Do not disclose the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make the arrangements for you. Rent a car at the airport and drive directly to your hotel. Call your date from the hotel or meet at the location you have already agreed to. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel.. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a cell phone at all times. Use your head!
10. Get yourself out of a jam
Never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, excuse yourself and get out of there. If you feel you are in danger, call the police; it’s always better to be safe than sorry. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your behavior; your safety is much more important .
While liars, cheaters and imposters certainly ply their craft on the Web, you’ll also find them in nightclubs and offline dating services, cocktail parties. Regardless of where you meet someone, dating is never a risk-free activity so use caution when meeting people.